Were they in love?
While his warnings were true, great friends don’t date exes, especially such a short time after the breakup. Are the person you need to forgive.
All i know is that trust is like glass, it can be broken and put back together but there will always be cracks. I’ll admit, back then i was jealous that they’d opted to go to the same school.
Consult your friend first
You have done nothing to warrant their behavior. It’s what he would have heard if he came in here. You guys will probably never be friends again, but you can not be mad at them when your the one who ended it.
Wish them all the best and let him know that you will not be speaking to him again. Our divorce is not final yet. Divorce was the right thing for them, but it’s daft to paint op as some bad guy and pretend he has no right to be hurt about his friend hooking up with his ex behind his back. Your wife is the one who should feel betrayed. However, in order to maintain a healthy relationship with both of them, it’s crucial that you never seem even a little like you’re taking sides in their breakup or casting either one as the bad guy, even months or years after the fact.
So, is it worth it?
We met up one night after work. So what? it was his fault, that they divorced. The line about “his name” struck me as controlling as well.
He’s not truly your friend and she is now your ex-wife. But do you think the idea of my body being metaphorically blown to smithereens stopped me from dating not one, but two (yeah. You led her on through 5 prime years of baby-making time before you snipped the tubes. Thanks for your comments.
The secret to everlasting love may not be what you think
The friend hit the nail on the head, and op really has no leg to stand on. Not only was she positive and willing to talk this whole thing out, but she wasn’t throwing her drink in my face. I don’t think you lead her on, per se.
If you want a cinderella story, be your own fairy godmother. We decided to have a magical weekend together. None of us wanted to return home, but with very little money and an incredibly tough time landing entry-level jobs during the recession, living on our own just wasn’t an option. Either a global map or a map of the americas. We are no longer accepting comments on this article.