I didn’t allow myself to be trapped or feel that way, and neither one of the woman saw me as a pawn. Hamstering, and too much bullshit encouragement from their similar friends, i suppose.
Always looking for the bigger better deal to come along and it finally did. He will assume that it is a slippery slope when he does offer as surely, she will expect it in the future. Anyway, life has a way of working these things out. As i said in my blog. I am fine on my own so please don’t assume single mom’s want men to pity them and to “help” them.
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I guarantee you no one from here would come to your blog to advocate for men with no kids. Yeah, their educated and succesful, but they’re also arrogant, condescending, obnoxious, and just plain wack to us men. Consistency of kindness and helpfulness are too much to ask of him. So why would you expect a man to pay for a child that isn’t his? your child is your problem.
If i genuinely fall in love with a women with children then fair enough but i doubt i will and i certainly wont look to. Avoid single moms, make the wrong decision and there is a chance you will be financially gutted and made to support her kids. It’s obvious all you want to do is argue to justify single motherhood. Other men’s children are excess baggage, especially when single mom tries to get a man who is not their father to carry the baggage. Time to invest in cymbalta. Having a child only compounds the problems associated with this distinct lack of self-awareness.
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But everyone has baggage, not just mothers. My only advice to anyone considering dating a single mother is to not bother.
, “emotionally unavailable-“, “the ex/ baby daddy is always there”, “the kids are working against you”, and so on and so on. Sh*t happens, you learn from it and move on.
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Can’t deny it because the shit happened to me dammit and i’m not a jerk or asshole. Most of those guys have little dating experience, as they were studying all the time and had nerdy habits.